'Negativity is your biggest enemy' and this is probably the millionth time you are reading this. Then whats new here in this post?
We often, rather always, think we are very positive towards life and our outlook can't get any more positive than this but unknowingly we are surrounded by negativity.
We generally know that positivity and negativity has to do with how we look at life but in real terms 90% of your negativity or positivity is all about how others look at you. Like everything else in this world we attract negativity or positivity and that depends on
1- Our attitude towards us and others
Frankly speaking, bad ass attitude wont do you any good in life. Thanks to the movies everyone wants to be a bad ass but look at the successful people and none of them is bad ass. Would like to mention a small quote here -
"The tree with the most fruit is also the most bent down"
Basically to rise you have to bend. This does not mean that to rise you have to under rate yourself and submit to slavery but a humble attitude and niceness will attract you positivity. If by chance someone does a little bad to you, then too dont release negative thoughts against that person. Dont be like - "May you rot in hell!"
OR "Go Die!" because frankly by saying so you just satisfy yourself a tiny bit but attract a lot of negativity and also you do no bad to the other person because you are not his/her spiritual commander anyways.
2- Our approach towards the daily events
Try and give way to someone in traffic and smile at the person, keep yourself calm when someone overtakes you, just be nice and you will attract a lot of positivity which is a thousand times stronger than your positivity for yourself. During the day you come across many events which are exactly the way you want them to be like. You feel you're not talked about in college or you feel you are not that social or famous at work because you have constantly been thinking negative. Your approach has been negative and you are not motivated enough. The fear of some thing not happening has and will make you more negative and thus the negative results in your life. Be positive and practice optimism, yes i know its easy to say and easy to hear but i wish i could tell you another way out of this if there existed one. Force feed positivity by telling yourself that 'Yes today i'll be happy and good things will happen to me" and you will very soon feel the results going your way. :) Remember -
"Everything that has happened to you is because you have wanted it to happen hence everything that will happen in future will also be what you want to happen, then why not just want the good stuff?"
"The rich became RICH and successful only because they WANTED to, the WANT is very important"
We often, rather always, think we are very positive towards life and our outlook can't get any more positive than this but unknowingly we are surrounded by negativity.
We generally know that positivity and negativity has to do with how we look at life but in real terms 90% of your negativity or positivity is all about how others look at you. Like everything else in this world we attract negativity or positivity and that depends on
1- Our attitude towards us and others
Frankly speaking, bad ass attitude wont do you any good in life. Thanks to the movies everyone wants to be a bad ass but look at the successful people and none of them is bad ass. Would like to mention a small quote here -
"The tree with the most fruit is also the most bent down"
Basically to rise you have to bend. This does not mean that to rise you have to under rate yourself and submit to slavery but a humble attitude and niceness will attract you positivity. If by chance someone does a little bad to you, then too dont release negative thoughts against that person. Dont be like - "May you rot in hell!"
OR "Go Die!" because frankly by saying so you just satisfy yourself a tiny bit but attract a lot of negativity and also you do no bad to the other person because you are not his/her spiritual commander anyways.
2- Our approach towards the daily events
Try and give way to someone in traffic and smile at the person, keep yourself calm when someone overtakes you, just be nice and you will attract a lot of positivity which is a thousand times stronger than your positivity for yourself. During the day you come across many events which are exactly the way you want them to be like. You feel you're not talked about in college or you feel you are not that social or famous at work because you have constantly been thinking negative. Your approach has been negative and you are not motivated enough. The fear of some thing not happening has and will make you more negative and thus the negative results in your life. Be positive and practice optimism, yes i know its easy to say and easy to hear but i wish i could tell you another way out of this if there existed one. Force feed positivity by telling yourself that 'Yes today i'll be happy and good things will happen to me" and you will very soon feel the results going your way. :) Remember -
"Everything that has happened to you is because you have wanted it to happen hence everything that will happen in future will also be what you want to happen, then why not just want the good stuff?"
"The rich became RICH and successful only because they WANTED to, the WANT is very important"
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