Dont consider yourself awesome all the time.

Question - Hey man how are you doing?
Answer - Im doing very good bro, im doing awesome. :)

Question 2 - Whate been up mate?
Answer - Good life buddy! Good life!

And you just cheated yourself. :)

Yes you did. Obviously answering someone with - " I'm doing bad " or "life sucks bro" isn't a decent reply but every time you reply with a very awesome answer you kind of temporarily cheat yourself and by doing this consistently you create a fake bubble around you that yes your life is awesome because everyone else thinks it is. But is it? Well, that only you know. :)

Be true to yourself. Know what you are and know where  you are because "you cannot build a building unless you know where to build it", hence know your base. To cheat others is bad but to cheat yourself is worst and by considering yourself awesome and living in the fake bubble you do no good to yourself. You will be able to develop yourself only when you know where you stand. Your success depends on how well you KNOW yourself.

People usually always over rate themselves. I have come across penniless people who consider themselves awesome and are overconfident about everything they do. The reality is these people are penniless not because they dont deserve anything but they've always felt they're better than the others which has deleted the scope of their development. Motivation after all can be provided to only someone who is receptive. Without motivation success wont come and for that we need to open the gates of our mind for positive motivation.

Everytime someone asks you 'How are you doing?', tell them you're doing very good but most importantly tell YOURSELF there is still a lot of SCOPE for you to develop and TODAY you are going to work towards your DEVELOPMENT.

I'll break down a cliché here :P , you must have come across this one many times on the internet - "If nobody's perfect, then I'm nobody".. hahaha

But hey Mr NOBODY, BRO! that's surely very cool to say but if you're NOBODY, then well wish your bubble doesn't burst!

The DOUBT between you and success. How to think for a happy future.

You've had problems in the past, you have problems today and then you strongly believe that having problems is a part of your life and thus the problems will keep occurring and will occur in the future as well. Simple. Right? Hence according to a normal non motivated human being 'Problems' are a part of LIFE and here is EXACTLY where the real PROBLEM lies!

Lets break it down. Today you have a problem or say you are not satisfied with some part of your life. Here let me ask you a question, did you ever actually felt, visualized or thought of a happy future in the past? You might end up saying YES. I believe in you. :) BUT there always lied a DOUBT in your mind that YES i want things to be like this or like that in the future but it might not happen because you've always believed that PROBLEMS are a part of your life and this a perfect happy future does not exists hence you want your future to be good but the strength of your DOUBTS never let the dreams or desires turn into a reality.

See, you've always let that DOUBT perform much strongly than your desires and till now it hasn't worked for you. Another point of caution is that if you keep thinking in the same stream then I guarantee you will end up in a pool of your own problems. Hence, just let go that DOUBT that there is. To be honest there is no other way of letting go that doubt but to actually let it go slowly from this very moment. You will have to force feed your thoughts a little bit but then how much you force your thoughts is actually how sooner you want to Simplify your life for a happy future = SUCCESS!

"Try and fail but never fail to try"

This is what you need for success - Distractions!

Clarity of Vision! This world is full of distractions. Distractions come to you every moment, every second, at every step you take, with every breath you take.

 Its rather hard to believe but its a fact t hat almost 60% of your daily thought can be categorized as distractions. Now what is a distraction. A distraction is the thought of something your mind want to achieve, your heart want to be but you somehow have trained yourself to always consider most of your dreams as unachievable. Here again, a distraction is NOT always negative, In fact a distraction is positive almost half of the time, but what this world is consistently doing is to always get demotivated by the thought of your distractions. every time one thinks of something he/she wants or someone the person wants to become it comes as a de motivation as the person often thinks of achieving that 'thing' or becoming that 'someone' as unachievable.

Enough talking about what you have been doing till now right. Now lets simplify what you need to do in a jiffy!

Slap on to yourself that every time you get a thought of your aspirations it should motivate you. For the duration of that thought it should make you feel good. Close your eyes and visualize. Why i say you should slap this on yourself is because there is actually no other way to start making the thoughts work for you. Seriously. I have tried this out with myself and it has worked. :)

The Distractions are GOOD for you! They will bring you Success.  :)