No negativity = Self Motivation and success.

'Negativity is your biggest enemy' and this is probably the millionth time you are reading this. Then whats new here in this post?

We often, rather always, think we are very positive towards life and our outlook can't get any more positive than this but unknowingly we are surrounded by negativity.
We generally know that positivity and negativity has to do with how we look at life but in real terms 90% of your negativity or positivity is all about how others look at you. Like everything else in this world we attract negativity or positivity and that depends on

1- Our attitude towards us and others
   
     Frankly speaking, bad ass attitude wont do you any good in life. Thanks to the movies everyone wants to be a bad ass but look at the successful people and none of them is bad ass. Would like to mention a small quote here -

"The tree with the most fruit is also the most bent down"

Basically to rise you have to bend. This does not mean that to rise you have to under rate yourself and submit to slavery but a humble attitude and niceness will attract you positivity. If by chance someone does a little bad to you, then too dont release negative thoughts against that person. Dont be like - "May you rot in hell!"
 OR "Go Die!" because frankly by saying so you just satisfy yourself a tiny bit but attract a lot of negativity and also you do no bad to the other person because you are not his/her spiritual commander anyways.

2- Our approach towards the daily events

      Try and give way to someone in traffic and smile at the person, keep yourself calm when someone overtakes you, just be nice and you will attract a lot of positivity which is a thousand times stronger than your positivity for yourself. During the day you come across many events which are exactly the way you want them to be like. You feel you're not talked about in college or you feel you are not that social or famous at work because you have constantly been thinking negative. Your approach has been negative and you are not motivated enough. The fear of some thing not happening has and will make you more negative and thus the negative results in your life. Be positive and practice optimism, yes i know its easy to say and easy to hear but i wish i could tell you another way out of this if there existed one. Force feed positivity by telling yourself that 'Yes today i'll be happy and good things will happen to me" and you will very soon feel the results going your way. :) Remember -

"Everything that has happened to you is because you have wanted it to happen hence everything that will happen in future will also be what you want to happen, then why not just want the good stuff?"

"The rich became RICH and successful only because they WANTED to, the WANT is very important"


     
    

Dont consider yourself awesome all the time.

Question - Hey man how are you doing?
Answer - Im doing very good bro, im doing awesome. :)

Question 2 - Whate been up mate?
Answer - Good life buddy! Good life!

And you just cheated yourself. :)

Yes you did. Obviously answering someone with - " I'm doing bad " or "life sucks bro" isn't a decent reply but every time you reply with a very awesome answer you kind of temporarily cheat yourself and by doing this consistently you create a fake bubble around you that yes your life is awesome because everyone else thinks it is. But is it? Well, that only you know. :)

Be true to yourself. Know what you are and know where  you are because "you cannot build a building unless you know where to build it", hence know your base. To cheat others is bad but to cheat yourself is worst and by considering yourself awesome and living in the fake bubble you do no good to yourself. You will be able to develop yourself only when you know where you stand. Your success depends on how well you KNOW yourself.

People usually always over rate themselves. I have come across penniless people who consider themselves awesome and are overconfident about everything they do. The reality is these people are penniless not because they dont deserve anything but they've always felt they're better than the others which has deleted the scope of their development. Motivation after all can be provided to only someone who is receptive. Without motivation success wont come and for that we need to open the gates of our mind for positive motivation.

Everytime someone asks you 'How are you doing?', tell them you're doing very good but most importantly tell YOURSELF there is still a lot of SCOPE for you to develop and TODAY you are going to work towards your DEVELOPMENT.

I'll break down a cliché here :P , you must have come across this one many times on the internet - "If nobody's perfect, then I'm nobody".. hahaha

But hey Mr NOBODY, BRO! that's surely very cool to say but if you're NOBODY, then well wish your bubble doesn't burst!

The DOUBT between you and success. How to think for a happy future.

You've had problems in the past, you have problems today and then you strongly believe that having problems is a part of your life and thus the problems will keep occurring and will occur in the future as well. Simple. Right? Hence according to a normal non motivated human being 'Problems' are a part of LIFE and here is EXACTLY where the real PROBLEM lies!

Lets break it down. Today you have a problem or say you are not satisfied with some part of your life. Here let me ask you a question, did you ever actually felt, visualized or thought of a happy future in the past? You might end up saying YES. I believe in you. :) BUT there always lied a DOUBT in your mind that YES i want things to be like this or like that in the future but it might not happen because you've always believed that PROBLEMS are a part of your life and this a perfect happy future does not exists hence you want your future to be good but the strength of your DOUBTS never let the dreams or desires turn into a reality.

See, you've always let that DOUBT perform much strongly than your desires and till now it hasn't worked for you. Another point of caution is that if you keep thinking in the same stream then I guarantee you will end up in a pool of your own problems. Hence, just let go that DOUBT that there is. To be honest there is no other way of letting go that doubt but to actually let it go slowly from this very moment. You will have to force feed your thoughts a little bit but then how much you force your thoughts is actually how sooner you want to Simplify your life for a happy future = SUCCESS!

"Try and fail but never fail to try"

This is what you need for success - Distractions!

Clarity of Vision! This world is full of distractions. Distractions come to you every moment, every second, at every step you take, with every breath you take.

 Its rather hard to believe but its a fact t hat almost 60% of your daily thought can be categorized as distractions. Now what is a distraction. A distraction is the thought of something your mind want to achieve, your heart want to be but you somehow have trained yourself to always consider most of your dreams as unachievable. Here again, a distraction is NOT always negative, In fact a distraction is positive almost half of the time, but what this world is consistently doing is to always get demotivated by the thought of your distractions. every time one thinks of something he/she wants or someone the person wants to become it comes as a de motivation as the person often thinks of achieving that 'thing' or becoming that 'someone' as unachievable.

Enough talking about what you have been doing till now right. Now lets simplify what you need to do in a jiffy!

Slap on to yourself that every time you get a thought of your aspirations it should motivate you. For the duration of that thought it should make you feel good. Close your eyes and visualize. Why i say you should slap this on yourself is because there is actually no other way to start making the thoughts work for you. Seriously. I have tried this out with myself and it has worked. :)

The Distractions are GOOD for you! They will bring you Success.  :)

The below average Success thinker.

Okay so this is my first post after the introduction. Earlier in my intro Ive  mentioned that I'm very weak and a border liner at school/college. Some subjects I never liked and some I never felt the need of. I never understood how knowing anything more than BODMAS in maths will help me in life. I never understood how calculating the remaining distance between two trains will help me in life neither could I understand how knowing the chemicals in a product will help me.
Here the word help basically means the solution to my question. One question that has always been there..One question which never let me study well because it made everything else look so secondary. The question was.. will I get happy, healthy and wealthy, both in terms of spiritual and material gains by studying all that they teach me at school/college? The answer always.came a 'No' and along came my borderline result. Success is different to every different individual.
You.need to know what you want and once you know it. Stick to it. I will help you simplify the rest.
Be well. :-)

Arjun Singh Rajput. 

My introduction and purpose behind this blog.

Hello. :-)

Before anything else I will like to splash on some facts about myself. I am just another 21 year young (saying 21 year old kind of makes me feel what.. A little old :-P ) graduate from the University of Delhi, India. I am academically weak. I have never been interested in studying at the school or college. I have zero blogging sense and same goes for the experience. To start this blog is rather an instantaneous idea.  I have never been a consumer of the fact that to do something in life I need to score well at school. I have changed my life through self and gathered motivation from everywhere possible and will like to share the same with everyone. My motivation behind starting this blog is my observation that I have been good at affecting my fellow mates through the daily course of life. If I can sum that up and make it an interesting read, I think there's no harm. :-)
I motivate myself through my targets and my aims.
I love 3 things a lot - Big cars, big business and big houses.
I have a lot more to tell about myself but  I will let time uncover the remaining.
My articles and posts will follow soon.
Know one thing - This world is a big trick.
I will try to simplify it. I have simplified it for myself.

My grammar can be ignored for the good? :P 

Arjun Singh Rajput.
https://www.facebook.com/arjunrajput